Last night during our date night my wife’s boobs and I made conscious choices about our patterns of behavior and interaction. She is typically in her masculine most of the time and also doesn’t trust people very easily. She was hurt a lot growing up in her family.
But on our date as we walked along the beach, she was able to drop into her soft feminine, which was lovely. Then right before we got into our lovemaking, a detail got missed, and she rubber banded right back into her protective masculine energy and she was mad at me.
So we got to see that dynamic in play. She saw that she overreacted and was present to what caused her to react that way. Progress is being made every day right now.