From husband: in the next two weeks my wife goes away to attend two tantra courses in a row. She’ll be away for 3 weeks. Her second lover will be there for both courses. Also, the first guy she had sex with last year, bad boy #1, will also be there. That guy now has a new partner who he is monogamous with.
She is also going to visit another guy before the course starts who she met last year and gave a handjob to. He’s a potential third lover.