At the tantra course my wife had a desire to be tied up and flogged by someone. It happened at a previous tantra course, and now getting flogged is one of the things she really likes.
There was another man there who was proficient in flogging. She sought him out and asked him to flog her. So my wife went topless. He tied up her hands to a post. She bent over and the flogging began.
I could see my wife’s pleasure, her moans, the edge between pleasure and pain. He flogged her back, then her ass, then back and forth in a very rhythmic way.